Sometimes all the can not things in life overpower the can things and lead to a never will attitude.
It’s not a fun place to be, especially when the can not is never easily explained, and even less understood. But God does know, and in Him the can is possible, and when the can not remain, it’s overwhelming power is removed by an acceptance that God knows what is happening. That is far more important than my understanding, or the understanding of anyone else. Acceptance is something we crave…and God willingly supplies it when we seek Him with all our hearts.
Am I a can or can not? Both. I am a life in progress toward being all God created me to be.